What’s New: December 2025
🎁 LAST MINUTE GIFT IDEAS 🎁
In case you missed it, I sell polyamory merch! My Threadless shop has a variety of designs including my favourite "Too Hot For Monogamy" T-shirt, my "ComPURRsion" mug with 3 cats in the polyamory flag colours, or a more subtle polyamory heart design in a variety of pride flag colours. You can get them on shirts, hoodies, mugs, stickers, and more.
I also have two holiday-themed designs - "Have A Jolly Poly Holiday" and "Have A Holly Poly Christmas" - to celebrate the festive cheer!
🎂 IT'S MY PAGE-IVERSARY! 🎂
To celebrate 5 years of @polyphiliablog, I did a retrospective of my top 5 polyamorous memories in the near-decade of non-monogamy I've experienced. The vast majority of these have been talked about in way more detail elsewhere on my Patreon, so if anything piques your interest, this is your opportunity to take a look.
Sex party and private orgy stories can be found here, here, here. Piers Gaveston orgy snippet can be found here. Then there's my first gangbang, my Halloween orgy, another private orgy I did, and a sapphic orgy. For polycule Samhain celebration, watch this; for my hospital story, watch this and this. For Christmas 2024 pics are here, and for London and Glastonbury trips 2023, pics are here.
😉 GIVE THE GIFT OF BETTER SEX 😉
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Ready to make this winter your hottest season yet? Join Beducated with 50% off the yearly pass, locked in for life. All you need to do is use my code POLYPHILIA for the deal - and you get a 14-day money-back guarantee, so you literally have nothing to lose.
🙇WHEN DEFERENCE MEANS SELF-DISRESPECT 🙇
You've heard me talk about couple privilege and hierarchy in polyamory before, but I recently went into a bit more depth on how some people, in an effort to "respect" another person's relationship, end up sacrificing their own needs and viewing their own relationship as "beneath" someone else's. This was part of this month's Q&A, which I release on the 15th of every month for my patrons - I answer this and so much more!
👒 SOOO, WHO THE FUCK IS MADELINE? 👒
Every now and then, I review some contemporary portrayals of non-monogamy in the media, and with the huge splash that was Lily Allen's new album "West End Girl", which covers the trials and tribulations of her failed open marriage, I simply had to comment. This video was an in-depth, hour-long breakdown of the lyrics and my personal thoughts on the dynamics going on. I also share some personal stories of the things I found particularly relatable on the album, and some of it gets pretty spicy!
📝 RELATIONSHIP CHECK-INS 📝
My final patron-only exclusive last month was one about relationship check-ins - what they involve, their importance, and why they are particularly common in the non-monogamous community. Check it out!
🤗 NEED SUPPORT? 🤗
If you need emotional support, advice, resources, or just a space to vent about all things non-monogamy, don't hesitate to reach out through my peer support service.
