Polyamory is Not The Solution To Cheating
If a person cannot be respectful in one relationship, why would you suggest they have more? Polyamory does not fix poor communication and dishonest behaviour, and it actually requires more emotional responsibility than a monogamous relationship! Polyamorous relationships are real relationships that require a lot of attention and care.
People often ask me, "Is polyamory a fix for monogamous cheating?" and my nuanced answer is - yes and no. It depends on the reason for the cheating - someone having a naturally flirtatious personality in a way that is incompatible with a monogamous relationship would be less likely to cause issues in a non-monogamous relationship, for example. So it might just be an issue of what relationship style is the best fit for someone. In that scenario, polyamory would "fix" the issue. That is different from someone actively lying and deceiving their partner because they are afraid to communicate and be honest, as that is an issue that will carry over in all types of relationships.
It also depends on what the actual act of cheating even was. Certain relationship agreements/expectations are stricter than others, and sometimes these are not communicated clearly, which makes the relationship a huge minefield to navigate for any partner!
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