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Emotional Libertarianism in Polyamory: Are We Responsible for Other People’s Feelings?
Emotional libertarianism, as defined by More Than Two, is “a belief that every individual is entirely responsible for his or her own emotional responses and that person’s behaviour is never the “cause” of another person’s emotion.”
What Love Languages Do You Speak and Understand?
Knowing what love language your loved one is good at will help you with compassionately appreciating the effort they are putting into the relationship in other ways, even if the language they are speaking may not be your ‘mother tongue’.