What’s New: January 2026
😈 ON RESISTING TEMPTATION AND IMPULSIVITY 😈
Should “messy lists” exist in polyamory? How do you manage your impulse control when you want to date someone who is (for one reason or another) off-limits? My latest video diary entry covers two personal stories when my desires conflicted with my morals, and a great tip from my therapist on what to do when you're finding it hard to resist dating someone who you know would be A Bad Idea.
🔥 LET'S TURN UP THE HEAT IN 2026 🔥
Thinking about your New Year’s resolutions? How about making your own pleasure a priority this year? Small steps can make a big difference, and here are a few ways to get started:
Explore what excites you. Take time to discover what really turns you on - and if you’re curious, CHEEX is a safe, female-friendly space to do just that. Their library of erotic films and audios is a fun, pressure-free way to explore your fantasies.
Learn new skills. Pleasure isn’t just about what you feel - it’s about how you do it! CHEEX’s workshops and tutorials in the Pleasure Academy can help you level up your sexual confidence and communication with partners.
Try something new. Pick one thing this year you haven’t explored before - whether it’s a fantasy, a technique, or a type of content.
Here are some CHEEX personal recs:
- Muse, a beautifully shot sapphic fantasy set in a life drawing studio
- Need You Inside Me, an erotic radio play of two people who can't keep their hands off each other
- How to Choke For Pleasure, a 6-minute guide on an increasingly popular yet risky practice that is essential to get right
Start a 7 day free trial on CHEEX using my code LEANNE! Explore everything — movies, audios, and tutorials — completely free before committing to a subscription. And don’t worry, you can cancel anytime during the trial period.
On CHEEX, performers are of legal age, consenting, and working in fair conditions, so you can enjoy worry-free!
❓GOT A BURNING QUESTION? JOIN MY MONTHLY Q&A!❓
How do I stop feeling insecure about being polyamorous? How do I keep myself safe when my partner has more casual sex than I do? How do I resist the temptation of a mononormative life? These are just some of the questions I answered in my monthly Q&A, which releases on the 15th of every month for Patreon subscribers. All questions are totally anonymous - and I need your input!
🌱 TALKING TO YOUNG PEOPLE ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS 🌱
I was interviewed on how to support conversations with young people that don't put them in heteronormative boxes and put it all in a little voice note. I covered assumptions that people make around sexuality and relationship structures, how these create difficulties for young people, and what we can do to improve representation and the conversations we have with young people about relationships, gender, sex, and more.
👀 WHAT'S COMING IN 2026... 👀
I'm getting ready for more collaborations with fellow creators this year, bringing more workshops and insights to improve your relationships and equip you with the right tools to navigate the nuances of non-monogamy. You can also expect more public speaking, exciting brand collabs, and sexy stories to come. Watch this space!
🤗 NEED SUPPORT? 🤗
If you need emotional support, advice, resources, or just a space to vent about all things non-monogamy, don't hesitate to reach out through my peer support service.
