What’s New: November 2025
❄️ WINTER IS COMING ❄️
How do you navigate the holidays as a polyamorous person? The winter holidays can be a time where mononormativity and couple privilege really rear their heads, and so I've published a video guide on how to deal!
📕 BOOK GIVEAWAY! 📕
Do you have a loved one in your life who needs some help getting their heads around the idea of polyamory? Well, I'm doing a giveaway of the perfect book for them - it's called Supporting Someone Polyamorous by Lola Phoenix (who also wrote The Non-Monogamy Journal and The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy), and you're in with a chance to win a signed copy if you join a paid Patreon tier before the 30th of November!
The giveaway ends on midnight, 1st December in UK time, and the winner will be announced shortly after. Go, go, go!
❓ PRIORITISING A PARTNER VS YOURSELF ❓
How do I deal with my partner telling me they're more attracted/connected to their other partner? When should I put my partner first and is that healthy? How do I rebuild trust with someone who keeps overpromising but underdelivering? I answer all this and more in this month's Q&A - and this time, as a special bonus, I answered some questions that we did not get to in my Polyamory for People Pleasers workshop!
🙏 'DECONSTRUCTING COUPLE PRIVILEGE' - RECORDING NOW AVAILABLE! 🙏
Missed my live event, ‘Deconstructing Couple Privilege’? You can now purchase the workshop recording in my Patreon shop. Remember - all paid subscribers get 20% off all workshops, and at the Unicorn tier, you get unlimited access to all of them! (If you got a ticket, you received the recording already - check your spam!)
😨 DO YOU GET POLYAMORY IMPOSTER SYNDROME? 😨
I recently reached 185k followers on Instagram and did my customary milestone Q&A. Some really great questions this round! If you missed it, the full video is available on my Patreon, along with every single Q&A I've ever done (which is nearly 40 videos now, on top of everything else)!
🤗 NEED SUPPORT? 🤗
If you need emotional support, advice, resources, or just a space to vent about all things non-monogamy, don't hesitate to reach out through my peer support service.
