Stop Blaming Yoru Metamour For Partner Problems
I don't know who needs to hear this, but stop blaming your metamour for things that you should be taking up with your partner.
Reality check: sometimes your partner is the problem. I said what I said. If I had a penny for every single time I had a client who came to me with a metamour problem that turned out to be a partner problem, I'd have a lotta spare change!
Even in situations where it is actually your metamour that is the problem in the dynamic, your partner still has a responsibility to respect and defend their relationship with you, and to address that with them just as much as you do.
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