A Good person isn’t Always a Good Partner (for You!)
Someone's time/energy levels due to their other commitments and relationships could be completely understandable and explainable, AND the time/energy they have available can simply be not enough for you or what you're looking for.
Someone doesn't have to be a bad person to be a bad fit for you as a partner. If you have good chemistry but poor compatibility, the wise thing to do is to not pursue a dynamic that will just make everyone miserable.
If you're looking for a partner you want to spend the majority of your time with, you're probably not going to feel satisfied with someone who only has time for you once every few weeks. Polyamory doesn't mean you have to settle for less.
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