4 Tips For A Successful Threesome
Having a threesome, but feeling left out.? Here's four things you can do to help.
1. Give your partners the benefit of the doubt, especially if it's your first time.
Focusing on more than one person can be challenging and some people can get carried away with all the novelty and excitement. They probably don't mean to be hurtful.
2. Speak up and ask for what you want.
There's no need to point fingers or blame anyone. Just say that you want to switch things up a bit and receive some physical attention. If you're playing with the right people, it won't kill the mood. And if you ask confidently, you'd be surprised how willing they will be to focus on you.
3. Get involved!
You can take turns spoiling one person with attention. You can sit back and enjoy the show, or you can direct the other two and try out some spicy talk. The dynamic between three of you can change multiple times throughout the experience.
4. If it feels really bad and you can't get into it, it's okay to say stop.
Consent should always be reversible. So if you don't want to continue, your partner should respect that and move towards aftercare.
They say ‘two’s company, three’s a crowd’ - but three can be just as great if you do it with the right people!
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